The Art of Sharing: Teaching Children to Care and Share is about more than asking children to hand over a toy. Sharing is a social skill that develops slowly as children learn about feelings, fairness and friendship.
Young children often see the world from their own point of view. With patient guidance, they begin to understand that other people have needs too.
Turn taking is often easier than sharing. A child can learn that they will get the toy back, which makes the idea feel safer. Simple phrases such as your turn, then my turn help children understand what is happening.
When children want the same item, emotions can rise quickly. Naming the feeling helps. You might say, You really wanted that truck. Sam is using it now, and you can have a turn next.
Cooking, painting, gardening and building activities give children natural chances to share space and materials. Educators can guide the moment without making children feel shamed.
When a child waits, offers help or notices a friend’s feelings, gentle praise reinforces the behaviour. Be specific. I saw you give Maya a turn with the brush. That was kind.
Toddlers and preschoolers will still need help. Sharing is a skill built through many small experiences, not one lesson.
If you are looking for a caring childcare centre in Sydney, contact Wonder Years to book a tour or ask our team a question. We would be happy to help you understand how our early learning approach can support your child.
